Hi. We are Mr & Mrs TSG… a very happily married couple from the UK. ​We have been swingers for many years, have experienced many different scenarios in the swinging world and have become very knowledgeable about the swinger lifestyle. We say (with our tongue firmly in our cheek!) that we are swinging gurus…

SWINGING ADVICE AND COACHING

We give swinger advice and coaching to couples (either together or just one half of the couple), single guys and single ladies via a video or audio call.

The subject of the conversation is entirely up to you – whether you want to understand how to get started in the swinging world, next steps if you have dipped your toes and want to move forward or have specific questions before or after a club visit, party or meet.

It goes without saying that every call is treated with total discretion and confidentiality. There is no need reveal your real name or location and if you would prefer to keep your camera turned off that is no problem at all.

WHO WE CAN HELP

COUPLES

The relationship status of couples in the lifestyle are varied. Whether you are married, in a long-term partnership, friends with benefits or in another relationship style we are able to give guidance on the lifestyle to you both together or to just one of you…

SINGLES

Perhaps surprisingly, there are many single men and single women in the lifestyle … but it is a very different world to regular dating. Navigating your way around finding suitable connections and then going to socials, meets, clubs and parties is not always easy and we are able to help you become a successful single in the lifestyle.

ANY LEVEL OF EXPERIENCE

Everybody in the lifestyle will say that they have been on a journey with expectations, boundaries and preferences changing with each experience. So whether you are completely new, have had one or two experiences or have been in the lifestyle for a while we are able to discuss how you can take the next steps in your own journey.

ABOUT US

We are a long-time married couple who have been in the swinging lifestyle for over 12 years. We would say that now we are in an open relationship and often play together but also venture out solo, meeting singles or couples for fun on a regular basis.

But it hasn’t always been like this – we have been through many stages in our lifestyle journey and have countless experiences – nearly all good, but some we would change knowing what we know now!

Where we play

We have had adventures in many different places… clubs in the UK, clubs in Europe, big house parties, small house parties, hotel rooms, hotel takeovers, AirBnBs. We also regularly have fun friends visit us at our home, sometimes just one man or woman, and sometimes many people for a party!

We also like a social or meet-and-greet. No sexy time, just a nice chat with open-minded people like us. This is always an enjoyable time and can lead to future fun meets!

Who we play with

It’s a long list! Between us we have had connections with couples, single guys, single women, straight people, bi people, 20-somethings through to 60-somethings, new swingers, experienced swingers, people we have become friends with and people we’ve never seen again!

Combinations have varied…1-to-1, threesomes, foursomes, moresomes and large group play. We love all the different ways to enjoy the swinging lifestyle!

BOOK A CALL

If you are looking for advice or guidance regarding the swinging world, whether you are new or already in the lifestyle, then simply book a call and let’s chat through where you are at now, where you want to get to and how to get there.

You can book a quick 15 minute call if you have something that you would like to briefly check out. But if you are looking for a more detailed discussion please book a 30 minute slot. Calls are charged at £20 for 15 minutes and £30 for 30 minutes.

Click the “Book a call” button below to select a time slot, provide some information about what you would like to discuss and pay for the booking.

Once you have booked a call you will receive an email with details of the how to join the call using Google Meets. You have the option of having the camera on or off.

Please note that calls will normally be with Mr TSG only. Mrs TSG may join the call if she is available but this is unlikely (she has a very busy job with unusual hours!)

For extra privacy, the booking system is under the name of “TSG Advice”, the reference on your card statement will be “TSG Advice” and emails come from a TSG Advice email address.

CONTACT US

If you would like to contact us about swinging advice or have any other questions please email us at: hello@theswinginggurus.com